Planning a destination wedding is one of the most exciting adventures a couple can take—but for many couples, ensuring the resort is LGBTQ+ friendly can make all the difference. Whether you or your guests are part of the LGBTQ+ community, choosing a venue that embraces and celebrates love in all its forms helps create a truly inclusive and joyful experience for everyone attending. Whether you’re dreaming of an oceanfront ceremony in Mexico or a lush tropical garden exchange in the Caribbean, choosing a resort that embraces and celebrates love in all its beautiful forms is key.

Hi! I’m Dana, the destination wedding and travel expert behind DWD Travel & Destination Weddings. I specialize in helping couples create unforgettable weddings in stunning, welcoming locations. In this post, I’ll share everything you need to know about selecting LGBTQ+ friendly resorts for your destination wedding, including top picks, which properties to approach with caution, and tips for vetting your venue’s inclusivity.

Inclusivity matters deeply to me—not because it’s trendy, but because it’s personal. My cousin Ashley was one of the most warm, generous, and wholehearted people I’ve ever known. She wasn’t a label—she was simply Ashley. A wife, a mother, and someone I loved with my whole heart. She passed away far too young, at just 29-years-old, from ovarian cancer, but her legacy continues to remind me how important it is that all couples—regardless of who they love—feel seen, celebrated, and supported. I may not always have the perfect words, but I lead with compassion, respect, and a genuine desire to make sure every love story is honored with care.

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Why LGBTQ+ Friendliness Matters in Destination Wedding Planning

Choosing a wedding venue is about more than just aesthetics or location. For some couples, the resort’s attitude and policies regarding inclusivity can impact the entire experience—from the moment you inquire about availability to your last dance at the reception.

Unfortunately, not every destination or resort welcomes same-sex weddings (or LGBTQ+ individuals) with open arms. Some places have restrictions or unofficial “policies” that exclude LGBTQ+ weddings altogether, which can lead to uncomfortable conversations, limited vendor options, or even outright discrimination.

That’s why focusing on LGBTQ+ friendly resorts is crucial. These resorts offer:

• Staff training on inclusivity and respectful service
• Clear policies supporting same-sex ceremonies
• An environment where all guests—regardless of gender or orientation—feel safe and celebrated

When you pick an LGBTQ+ welcoming resort, you’re not just booking a venue; you’re investing in a supportive community that makes your wedding feel like the joyful celebration it’s meant to be.

What Makes a Resort LGBTQ+ Friendly?

You might wonder: what exactly makes a resort LGBTQ+ friendly? It goes beyond simply “allowing” same-sex weddings (which many resorts do now out of obligation). The best resorts actively cultivate a welcoming atmosphere.

Here are some key markers:

• Inclusive marketing: You’ll see images of same-sex couples on their websites and social media, signaling they celebrate all love stories.
• Training & policies: Staff members are educated on LGBTQ+ issues and know how to create a respectful, affirming guest experience.
• Vendor flexibility: They allow or recommend LGBTQ+ friendly vendors such as photographers, officiants, and entertainers who understand your needs.
• Guest inclusivity: The resort environment is safe and enjoyable for LGBTQ+ guests.
• Legal and symbolic ceremony support: They’ll assist with all necessary paperwork and offer options for symbolic ceremonies if legal recognition isn’t possible on-site.

Top LGBTQ+ Friendly Resorts for Destination Weddings

Now, for the good stuff—where should you consider booking your destination wedding? These resorts top the list for popular and trusted inclusive destination wedding venues:

Secrets, Dreams, and Hyatt Inclusive Collection Resorts

The Secrets and Dreams brands, along with the Hyatt Inclusive Collection, have made significant strides in creating welcoming spaces for all couples. These resorts are highly popular for destination weddings because they:

• Celebrate same-sex weddings openly and proudly
• Offer stunning ceremony locations, from beachside gazebos to lush gardens
• Provide wedding packages specifically tailored to LGBTQ+ couples
• Have staff who understand the importance of inclusivity

If you’re seeking a resort with a reputation for warmth and professionalism, these are fantastic places to start.

Hard Rock Riviera Maya, Cabo & Cancun

Hard Rock Riviera Maya and Hard Rock Cabo are standout choices for couples looking for a lively, music-infused celebration in Mexico. Both locations are welcoming of same-sex weddings and offer dynamic settings for couples who want fun and flair.

Lomas Properties: Generations and El Dorado

The Lomas group properties, including Generations Riviera Maya and El Dorado Royale, are known for exceptional service and LGBTQ+ friendliness. They’re a great choice for couples who want intimate, elegant weddings with a personal touch.

Puerto Vallarta (PVR)

Puerto Vallarta stands out as one of the most LGBTQ+ friendly destinations in Mexico and beyond. With a vibrant LGBTQ+ community, many resorts and vendors are experienced in hosting same-sex weddings here. It’s a fantastic choice if you want a lively, open-hearted atmosphere.

Resorts (and Destinations) to Be Cautious About

While there are many great LGBTQ+ friendly resorts, there are also places where caution is warranted, especially for LGBTQ+ couples:

Jamaica

Jamaica remains one of the least welcoming destinations for same-sex weddings because of legal restrictions and cultural attitudes. If inclusivity and comfort matter most, I strongly recommend skipping this destination for your wedding.

Sandals, Beaches & Palace Resorts

Several well-known resort brands have policies that explicitly do not allow same-sex weddings. Sandals and Beaches resorts fall into this category, as do Palace Resorts like Le Blanc and Moon Palace. These properties are not suitable if you want a truly welcoming environment for your wedding.

How to Vet a Resort for LGBTQ+ Inclusivity

Even among the so-called LGBTQ+ friendly resorts, it’s important to do your homework. Here’s how to vet a resort to make sure it’s the right fit for your wedding:

• Ask direct questions: Don’t be shy about asking if they have experience with same-sex weddings, staff training on LGBTQ+ inclusivity, and any policies specific to LGBTQ+ couples.
• Look for reviews and testimonials: Check platforms like WeddingWire, The Knot, and wedding forums for real couple experiences.
• Check their marketing materials: Does their website and social media include same-sex couples? Also, are there blog posts or press releases about LGBTQ+ weddings?
• Ask about vendor flexibility: Find out if you can bring in your own vendors or if they have trusted LGBTQ+ friendly vendors on-site.
• Clarify legal details: Ensure they can accommodate your ceremony type, whether legal or symbolic, and understand local marriage laws.

Final Tips for Planning an LGBTQ+ Destination Wedding

Planning a destination wedding can be magical and fulfilling, especially when you partner with resorts and vendors who truly understand and support you. Here are some final tips:

• Start early to give yourself time to research and vet resorts.
• Consider hiring a destination wedding planner who specializes in LGBTQ+ weddings (hello!).
• Communicate your needs clearly with the resort to avoid surprises.
• Be sure your guests know the destination and inclusivity of your wedding—this can help those who might have concerns about travel.
• Remember to have fun! Your wedding is about your love story, and the right resort will help you celebrate it with joy.

Your Dream Wedding Awaits at LGBTQ+ Friendly Resorts

Destination weddings should be as inclusive, joyful, and magical as the love they celebrate. Also, finding the right LGBTQ+ friendly resort to host your special day can make all the difference (for both you and your guests) by ensuring everyone feels truly welcomed, supported, and at ease.

If you want expert help navigating resorts, vendors, and travel for your destination wedding, I’m here for you. Let’s connect and create the perfect celebration where your love is honored exactly as it should be—without compromise.

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