9/24/25

Honeymoon Upgrades Guide: When to Splurge & When to Save

Planning a honeymoon comes with big dreams, and a budget to match. The good news? With the right honeymoon upgrades, you can add luxury and romance without overspending. In this guide, you’ll learn when it’s worth it to splurge, where to save, and how to get the most value out of your trip, no matter your price point.

At DWD Travel, we believe your honeymoon should feel like a reward, not a stressor. Whether you’re planning a once-in-a-lifetime escape or keeping things bougie on a budget, we help you make every dollar count. From room upgrades to romantic extras, we plan with heart and intention so you can focus on what really matters: each other.

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Start with Your Priorities

Before you start picking flights or hotels, take a minute to think about what matters most to you both. Do you want peace and quiet? Adventure? Time in the sun? Cozy moments with no schedule?

Once you know what kind of experience you’re after, it’s easier to make a plan. Spend more on the parts of the trip that match your top priorities. For example, if you dream of lazy mornings by your own pool, that might be worth the splurge. But if you’re planning to explore all day and just crash at night, save on the room and upgrade something else.

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Honeymoon Upgrades That Are Worth It

Some upgrades are more than just fancy extras, they transform your honeymoon into an experience you’ll always remember. These are the splurges that tend to be worth every penny:

  • Private pool or plunge pool: Stepping into your own pool each morning feels private and unforgettable. It’s a true escape.
  • Romantic dinners: A beach, rooftop, or sunset dinner creates romance that lingers long after the meal.
  • Room with a view: Ocean, mountain, or jungle views make mornings and evenings more meaningful, even if you’re rarely inside.
  • Couples spa treatments: A shared massage or ritual is the perfect way to unwind and reconnect after the wedding.
  • Personal vacation photography: Get a unique souvenir of your honeymoon with a private photo session. When you work with DWD Travel, we help you include a personal photography session in your itinerary, so you can capture those just-married and utterly happy moments in a beautiful destination. It’s way better than selfies, and the memories are forever.

These upgrades aren’t just about luxury. They’re about creating meaningful moments, the kind you’ll replay in your mind long after you’re home.

Ready to see where those splurge-worthy upgrades can take you? Check out Luxury Honeymoon Destinations Worth the Splurge: Caribbean, Bora Bora & Beyond.

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Honeymoon Upgrades That Don’t Add Value

Not every upgrade adds real value. First-class flights, for example, rarely feel worth it unless you’re on a very long-haul trip. Premium economy usually offers plenty of comfort for much less.

The same is true for meals. A private dinner or two feels special, but filling every night with fine dining often drains your budget and the fun. Local spots, beach cafés, or even simple pizza can create just as many lasting memories.

Souvenirs are another easy trap. Instead of buying a dozen small items, choose one or two meaningful keepsakes. You’ll save money, avoid clutter, and return home with treasures that truly remind you of your trip.

Want more ideas for effortless romance? Take a look at 4 of the Best All Inclusive Honeymoon Resorts in the Caribbean.

Smart Hotel Moves That Feel Like Upgrades

You don’t always have to spend more to feel like you did. These hotel hacks can unlock little luxuries without big price tags. Always sign up for loyalty programs, even if it’s your first time with that brand. Points can add up fast, and just being a member sometimes gets you room upgrades or welcome gifts.

Booking a room on the club level often gives you free breakfast, snacks, and sometimes even evening cocktails. It adds value fast, especially if you like to eat light or hang by the lounge. Ask about early check-in or late check-out. If the hotel isn’t full, they’ll often say yes for free or a small fee. Even an extra hour or two can feel like a win. Also, look closely at room types. An ocean view might only cost a little more than a garden room but give your whole trip a new vibe.

If dreamy upgrades are on your mind, don’t miss my roundup of the best overwater bungalows for honeymoons around the world.

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Booking Tips to Max Out Your Budget

When you book matters just as much as what you book. If you want those honeymoon upgrades without the premium price tag, timing is key:

  • Book early: Aim for six to eight months ahead, especially if you’re eyeing popular destinations. Early booking often means better rates and more choices of room types.
  • Travel off-peak: Late spring or early fall usually offers great weather with fewer crowds and lower prices. You can save hundreds just by shifting your dates.
  • Look for bundled perks: Resorts often run deals that include spa credits, private dinners, or free nights. These extras can stretch your budget much further.
  • Stay flexible for last-minute specials: Some properties drop the price of their best rooms when they need to fill them. Flexibility can pay off in a big way.

Booking at the right time can make all the difference in how far your budget goes. With a little planning, or flexibility, you can enjoy meaningful honeymoon upgrades without stretching your wallet.

If you’ve been weighing when to splurge and when to save, you might also enjoy my take on why value often beats a so-called “deal.” Read more here!

Bougie on a Budget: Sample Honeymoon Plans

Let’s put it all together. Here are a few sample ideas that show how to mix splurge and save for a honeymoon that feels luxurious without the luxury price tag.

Example 1: Riviera Maya Romance

Book a beachfront suite with a plunge pool. Have one candlelit dinner on the beach. Use local tours for snorkeling and cenote swims. Skip the flight upgrade and dine casually for most meals.

Example 2: Italian Escape

Stay at a boutique hotel with a view of the coast. Ride the train instead of renting a car. Splurge on a private cooking class and sunset boat ride. Eat gelato and pizza like the locals.

Example 3: Bali Bliss

Stay in a jungle villa with a private infinity pool. Use loyalty points for one hotel night. Enjoy free daily breakfast. Take a flower bath together at a spa. Fly economy, but break up your trip with a layover at a fun city.

Each of these honeymoons blends comfort, charm, and experience, all without going over budget.

Upgrades are only part of the picture. For more inspiration, take a look at Custom Honeymoon Itinerary Ideas: Adventure vs. Culture, What’s Your Travel Style?

Couple enjoying crystal-clear ocean, playful and romantic moment showing the joy of honeymoon upgrades in paradise.

Why Expert Planning Matters for Your Honeymoon Upgrades

One of the best upgrades you can make? Having a planner by your side (that can be me!). Working with someone who knows the industry saves time, stress, and yes, money.

As a travel expert, I can spot hidden fees, recommend trusted resorts, and time your booking to catch the best promotions. I also know how to read between the lines of hotel photos, guide you toward the right rooms, and make sure every detail runs smoothly.

Mistakes like booking the wrong transfer or missing out on included perks can cost more than any upgrade. With expert guidance, you avoid those pitfalls and enjoy a honeymoon that feels effortless and worth every penny.

Don’t just take my word for it, hear from a couple who’ve trusted me to plan their honeymoon. Sabrina and Tommy shared their experience:

We cannot recommend Dana and DWD enough! We recommend her to everyone who asks about our honeymoon. She is so knowledgeable about travel and makes sure it is a custom experience that fits your interests. She stayed within our budget and was always transparent about pricing. The planning process was so seamless. She took the thinking and the stress out of planning our first trip out of the country. We will definitely book our next trip through DWD, not only is she a travel guru but she’s an absolute gem!

Making the Most of Your Honeymoon Upgrades

Planning your honeymoon doesn’t have to mean choosing between luxury and limits. With thoughtful honeymoon upgrades, you can enjoy special moments that feel rich in meaning and memory, without overspending. By knowing where to splurge, where to save, and how to stretch your budget with smart choices, you set the stage for a trip that feels just right for the two of you.

If you’d like help planning a honeymoon that feels both special and smart, I’d love to guide you. Together we can create a trip filled with the right upgrades, the kind that bring joy and romance while still honoring your budget.


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